So back to my UC journey…
January 2010 was the year that changed my life yet again. So, I’m diagnosed with this unfamiliar disease. All I knew is that my diet had to change meaning, my obsession for coffee and salad had to come to a stop (devastating) among many other things. There is no manual on how to deal with this disease, no GI Doctor, nurse, or book can prepare you for what your life will turn into. You can have all the love and support in the world and trust me I did but somehow you still feel all alone and scared.
The first year is the hardest year for many reason: first, you are learning to TRY to accept this new life, secondly, finding the right GI doctor (went through 5 different ones in a year just to get to the one I have today for the past 7 years–was worth it) chemistry is key, thirdly, understanding and educating myself on this disease, and lastly making it part of my life as a whole. At the time of my diagnoses, I was in college so my social life plus education was very important to me. I’ve stressed this before and I will stress it again, my mom and sister were my backbone, rock, and biggest support system. They came to all my doctors appointment, got books that my sister would read to learn more about UC, they educated themselves, and did their best to make me happy. Despite my emotional state of feeling down and almost depressed, my mom, sister, guardian angel, and God are who got me through that difficult and challenging year.
As the year went on, I slowly got use to my new life style of eating white carbs, lean protein, and Ensure (UC’s versions of a milkshake, lol). I was being managed with steroids, oral and enema mesalamine. However, let me back track a little to my 3rd doctor in Mount Sinai–I recall my first visit so vividly, he wanted to put me on an IV medication and to me that was insane! Like how? It’s only been 6 months with this disease, why did he want to jump straight to that? I immediately said, “No, I’m not doing that”. That to me was a scary thing to hear and I didn’t hear those words again until Jan. 2016. Anyway, we agreed on the above medications. Just so you know typically, when first diagnosed OR when not in remission, we are automatically put on steroids, unfortunately. It’s like a band-aid to get the inflammation under control and lucky for me I was labeled as “steroid dependent” so they had to cut that out–which I was ok with! However, it wasn’t the last time I would encounter Mr. Prednisone, he’s been in my life more times then I can count.
So needless to say I got through my bumpy first year of highs and lows with finding my local GI doctor who kept me in remission for 5 years! His motto was “if it’s not broken, don’t fix it” which I loved. So, for those 5 years I was on: 4 pills daily of Lialda, one enema each night, and a bunch of vitamins. I eventually had to add a medication called 6mp which was the strongest medication as it’s even given to people who suffer from cancer as well. Due to that fact I was on it, I had to check my white blood cells level every 3 months. Thank God, everything was manageable with my blood cells even when it was low at times. Those 5 years for me were amazing… I’ll get into that more on a different blog.
I’m sharing my journey not to feel “bad for myself” but to bring awareness to this silent disease that many fight in silence, anxiety, loneliness, and fear. You see prior to being diagnosed, I thought to myself that God has already given me my hardest trauma of my life–losing my dad which til this day is the hardest thing I’ve gone through. But I was so naive that I thought I wouldn’t ever have to experience any other life changing thing–but I was wrong and even up until recently I was still wrong. God has taught me ALOT of life lessons with losing my dad and my UC journey and the first lesson has been: faith. To faithfully know He who made me beautiful inside and out knows exactly what He is doing. My life from the day I was born was beautifully made and even until now. I may not love every step of my journey–actually many times I hate it but I still would not change a thing. My UC has made me who I am today and it’s my cross I will hold in my heart forever…
xoxo